absolutely not

always waitin' for someone, to make me happy, pick me up, i realize that someone is me, what you call life, that ain't livin', bless the child that's got his own, it's my season, now i stand alone, just thought that i would let you know, some things you just can't control, should i wear my hair in a ponytail?, should i dress myself up in chanel?, do i measure me by what you think?, absolutely not, absolutely not, if i go to work in a mini-skirt, am i givin' you the right to flirt?, i won't compromise my point of view, absolutely not, absolutely not, told myself i won't complain, but some things have got to change, not gon' be a victim of, all your social push and shove, right or wrong, you judge the same, my picture never fit your frame, what you thought, you'll never know, you can't see me with your mind closed, now i see, life means more to me, more than fancy clothes, more than you'll ever know, all the ugly words that i heard you say, made me stronger everyday, now i live my life for me, oh, ooh, woah, oh, ooh, all my ladies say, oh, ooh, woah, oh, ooh, absolutely not, absolutely not, all my ladies say, oh, ooh, woah, oh, ooh, all my ladies say, absolutely not, absolutely not